Swinging | Poly | Kink | Automated matching

Meet your next play circle with AI-powered chemistry.

4allsocial is the lifestyle-native dating platform built for swingers, polycules, and kink-forward explorers. Curated matches, automated vetting, and playful, club-worthy vibes.

Automation

Smart introductions

AI curates couples, triads, and groups by boundaries, interests, and aftercare preferences - no endless swiping.

Consent-first

Dynamic consent layers

Scene-ready checklists, limits, and safewords stored privately; share selectively with a single tap.

Vibe

IRL + digital events

Invite-only parties, salons, and dungeon takeovers with automated RSVPs and compatibility queues.

Privacy

Discreet by design

Blurred avatars, burner links, and zero social cross-posting. You control every reveal.

Automations that do the work

Calendar sync + waitlists for club nights and private dinners.
Auto-icebreakers tuned to dynamic consent and shared kinks.
Verification + soft-vouching to keep the vibe curated.

Built for the lifestyle

Profiles for singles, couples, triads, and polycules.
Tag scenes, gear, aftercare style, and boundaries with clarity.
Anonymous RSVP drops with time-boxed link sharing.

Safety & trust

Two-layer chat reveals (avatar blur + staged details).
On-night check-ins and exit-safe flows for every attendee.
Consent receipts for couples and groups before any meetup.